Have you noticed you may be unhappy and you hate what you do only because of your attitude? Be certain to follow those tips to make sure you have an awful day (or seriously, do not!).

1. Just Hate What You Do: Don’t Begin to Do What You Love

Why try to reach your dreams and be more optimistic, you might not even succeed! It’s better to stay in your old ways of thinking and have a life you’re barely surviving in. Don’t even dream about a better life and imagine instead yours will stay on this course of unhappiness or somewhat contentment. Ditch the studies that say that you can train yourself to be happier… hey it seems too big of a goal and too much sweet! You love to stay on your comfortable couch while seeing others succeed and have fun.

2. Stay Unhappy and Don’t Resolve Your Problems

 A short session with a psychologist can make you 32 more times happier. Most of the problems are even ones that you can easily find a solution to. But, isn’t your life great? And to speak of that couch!

3. Whine Over and Over That Your Unhappy… and Over!

Your acts dictate your mood, so if you tell everybody and his cousin, even though it’s not that bad, how sad, boring, your life, the weather, your job are, you will end up feeling this way… forever.

Make sure to whine and stay negative. Being positive boosts happiness in a big way so stay far from it!

4. Let Others Bring You Down

 Anyways, your ex (or substitute the bully of your choice) always said that you were not done for a big life. Listen to her or him, she/he is wiser… or is she/he? In fact, don’t listen to anybody who says that there are most chances you can succeed in a domain, that it takes just a lot of efforts to be an expert in a field, but listen to everybody that tell you otherwise without proofs.

5. Form a Group of Like-Minded Unhappy People

 Since you try to make people discontented around you or you listen to those who tell you to, why not join together and complain? This is going to be so much fun, keeping your energy level down and attracting you sickness (Taino Technology study shows that a low frequency is tied to sickness).

6. Give Up Near the End, When Doing What You Love is Within Reach

 Be afraid of having a purpose in life, accomplishing your dreams or helping others even though it answers your needs because you might end up in a situation worse than you are now. In fact there are more odds it will be for the better since we grow this way in general but it’s even scarier, what will happen of your old sorrowful self and your couch?

7. Try to Control Everything but Your Happiness

 Everybody can easily see that we cannot control all aspect of our lives, that we have to go with the flow and find solutions along the way. But why not try to, you’ll be sure to fail and feel dejected.

8. Exhaust Yourself

 This is also part of trying too much. Don’t just do your best, give it all so you don’t have energy to keep going… and then return to point 6 and give up, this is a great mix for the failure you’re longing for.

9. Follow Unhappy Norms

Buy what Society tells you to and don’t make it like you actually need it to be. Don’t act, don’t react, just complain and be a productive citizen. For example, listen to the news bringing you down and telling you how bad this world is, that we must work 35 hours per week, that we must do war to have peace, that it’s normal children die in Africa while you’ve got to have this brand new car. Your life will feel empty even though you live in abundance.

10. Bonus : Smash Stuff and Feel Bad

Break stuff whenever something bad happens, it will mirror the wreck of your life and keep you feeling this way. Wow!

Note to Be Unhappy and Hate What You Do

I wrote this after years of observation on human unhappiness and in result of an unhappy event that happened today. You’re curious, no? It was because of a family career project, we tried to grab it but it wasn’t a good opportunity. Do I let this bring me down or should I use my energy to fuel what I want to achieve in my life? Yes, it’s frustrating, but sure thing I’m opting for the latter. Choosing to be happy now is a small victory already!

Please forgive me for being bold, I’m known to say things like they are when needed, but it’s not out of disrespect. It’s to make you smile and to make sure you know the way not to take so you can really be happy and do what you love.

If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.

It’s not the critic that counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled or whether the doer of deeds could have done them better…The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust, and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and often comes up short again and again. Who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions and spends himself in a worthy cause. And who, if at best in the end, knows the triumph of higher treatment and high achievement, and who at worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly so that his soul shall never be with those cold and timid ones, who know neither victory nor defeat.
-Theodore Roosevelt

Choose your own path to be happy and do what you love

Now please share it around to help kick each others on the right path. Come to our side of happiness, we have cookies, *cough cough*, a free ezine and ecourse (click on the link or go in the sidebar) to help you get there!

In the end, yours to help you stop being unhappy and hating what you do,

Marie-Eve